SIU Pune, Pune - community

Please ignore my poor English... So i am dropper for jee but my friends have taken admission in engineering colleges some in private and some in government.. i noticed 1 thing and that those who are in private clgs like MIT wbu pune, symbiosis, vit they all are enjoying their life so muchh like night party's, having good friend circle like genz type , fests, and many things and whereas some of my friends are in iit and nits too i don't think they are enjoying their life as much . They are still in their jee phase mentally and connected to just books and nothing else even when they post something with friends on stories it feels like i am watching stories of 7th grade children's story so npc and 2019 type ahh stories .. idk mera ishi wjhe se kuch dino se padhne ka man bhi nai kr raha agr merko koi achha government clg mil bhi gaya to life private walo ki tarah enjoy nhi kr paunga class me 50 ladke 2 ladki ka ratio hoga na hi koi clg life na hi kuch.. idk i am wrong or right but baat galat bhi nai h